The ring has never been a verdict on your competence; it is simply a record of heat and time. When eggs sit too long in high heat, iron and sulfur bond at the surface of the yolk, leaving that dull, green-gray outline that feels harsher than it is. It’s not a grudge, just a reaction that no one bothered to explain before you blamed yourself.
You break the pattern by changing the conditions, not your character. Lay the eggs in a single layer, cover with cold water, and bring them only to a calm simmer. As soon as they’re cooked, drown them in ice water and let the sudden chill slam the door on further change. When you finally slice through and see a clean, golden center, it’s more than a pretty egg. It’s evidence that outcomes can be negotiated, not merely endured.